So if we don't get pregnant with our RE by October, he wants me to consider IVF.  For those of you who have done it, can you please share your experiences/knowledge you have?  Jess already shared so much and I appreciate it, I am just guessing the more information I have the better so that if it comes to that, we know more about the process than we do now. 

I know some girls are anti thenest.com, but they have an infertility board that was so supportive and helpful. They even donated a bunch of meds to me.

Thanks...I will need to go check that out. 

some of the boards are "hidden" so if you cant find the infertility board, let me know and ill send you the link

Cat, were you able to find the boards that Jess recommended? I'm not having any luck.
I have my RE appt this Thursday to discuss IVF vs another IUI cycle. With my age, DH's sperm count and number of unsuccessful cycles my RE wanted us to come in to discuss IVF. The visit before our first IUI his plan was for 3 IUI cycles but since it was a bust I think he feels like we need to start seriously looking at IVF. I don't feel ready yet so I feel like I want to try one more IUI cycle but I also don't want to "waste" time or the $$ cap on my insurance for fertility procedures. Maybe those boards will help give me some clarity...

I couldn't find them either...I need to pm jess.

here you go girls: http://community.thenest.com/cs/ks/forums/4236698/ShowForum.aspx

Thanks Jess - I am truly grateful that you have stuck around this board and helped me with all of my questions! :)

Ditto Cat. Thanks, Jess!
That board is so full of people! The navigation is taking a little getting used to but there is a looooot of info on there.

Good Luck!