So Im finally remarried...

my ex-husband texts me today (we have 2 grown and 1 almost grown 17 yo daughters).... he says he wants to meet me in order to discuss 3 or 4 things... ummm OK so I agree to meet him on Wednesday, but he gave me absolutely no idea why!!! URRRRRGGGGGGGGGGHHHH This is one of the things that would irk me about him... he always left me hanging... even when he asked for a divorce he told me he no longer wanted to be married on the telephone and then made me wait two weeks to discuss it!!!! 

(@&$)#(&$#)(&$... Now I am aggravated, depressed (he may tell me we need to sell the house now if I dont buy it and right now Im not in the position), and very irritated.  My DH is no help either... I text and tell him and all he has to say is:

"wait to see what he has to say" uuuuuuuuuuuhhhhhh yeah, thanks, I got that already!

Now im aggravated at both of them!!!!

*vent over*

Your ex sounds like a wimp.  Why would he need so many days to build up the courage to talk to you?  I'm glad you are no longer married to him!! 

LOL thanks akbridehi... you are so right... he IS a wimp, always has been!  In the process of divorce he told me he was intimidated by me... I was like "What can I do to you???"  He is one of those people that hate to make waves but it's so irritating!  It put me in a bad mood for the rest of the day yesterday.  Now i have to wait for Wednesday to see what he has to say to me.  It makes me sick to my stomach cause he is so passive aggressive!!! He can insult you in such a nice way that you leave saying thank you.... and two minutes later you're like "Wait... did he just tell me F-off?"  I hate that in a person.... I prefer he just say what he means to say and not pussyfoot around the issue! Yesterday brought me back to those bad times....

Yeah Im glad Im not married to him too :)

Thanks for listening to my vent :)