I have been proposed to 2 other times by two other guys and turned both down. The first because he was going into the Air Force the second because I knew it would not work. We were like oil and vinegar. If we really worked at it constantly it
could work, but there would be constant fighting to keep it together.
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Mark first proposal 20 years ago was very sweet and simple. We went to Glouchester, MA Wingaersheek Beech and It was early in the year.
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Mark and I met on New Year's Eve and started dating in March.
June 1993 -
It was just before Father's Day. We went to Bliss Marine, so I could find a gift for my dad. I bought my father a book about the art of sailing. It was a hurmous book. Then we went to the beach. Because it was hot, but the water cold I was
the only one who went swimming. He thought it was funny because I reminded him of a sea 0tter floating on my back. The tide was was midway between high and low.
After I was done swimming we played with hermit crabs, star fis,h and snails. He tried to catch a crab.
It was about time for us to leave and the sun was begining to set and he took my hand and asked me to marry him.
He did not get on his knee and I am glad for it. He did not have the ring yet.
After this we went to dinner we bought lobster and I could not eat it because they looked like the hermit crabs. I placed my napkin over it and just ate my salad.
We then went to pick out a ring. I decided against an expensive ring. It was just $30 because I told him what I wanted was to build a new computer. So, the computer was my actual engagement gift. It was so much fun buying the parts and building
it together. The beginnings to building a life.
We decided to get married 2 months later on my 19th Birthday because I was already planning on moving out of my parent's house and he wanted us to be married before living together. How sweet is that?
It did not end up working out quite that way. A couple weeks later we celebrated our engagement and then a week before we were supposed to get married I found out I was expecting Andrew. Babies were not on our 5 year plan, so I get a
little freaked and postponed our wedding and we did just live together too make sure we both thought it would work with a child in our lives so early.
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2 years ago
It was our anniversary (18th) and we were about to go into a restaurant. The moon was full and reflecting on the canal. It was cold out and he gets on his knee and gives me a little grey box and inside was a beautiful ring and one I had never
been given. He said Will you marry me again. I said of course and that is why I am now here on PW.
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Marrying young and having children young is not the right path for everyone and not everyone is meant to stay with their SO, but I feel blessed that God did give me my one and only so young. The only reason I can figure is I went through hell
growing up and now I deserved some stability even if we still have struggles.