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she drives me crazyyyy, i just cant believe she has the nerve to put dh in that situation an then have the nerve to say im to blame, im not the one putting him in this position, an i did not force him to do anything gawwwwwwwwwwwwhhhhhhhhhhh

well so much for having a good relationship with her, she was wayyy out of line

Awwwwwwwwww...you poor dear.  I feel your pain.  My MIL is a beeeeeotch from  the word go.  Though she doesn't play favorites, she treats her children like crap too.  I am so sorry she is acting like that.  If you want, PM me and we can vent in private.  HUGE HUGS!!!