I totally agree with the other ladies...most FMIL's go off the deep end when their only son gets engaged/married...mostly because they are not the #1 woman in their life anymore.  I am getting that feeling with FMIL too.  Luckily they live in a different state so I don't see them, but as soon as I move in with FI...they will be an hour away :(((( Not looking forward to family dinners....

I'm so sorry that you are going thru this.  I also agree to maybe step away from the whole situation and see what transpires, as difficult as that may be. *HUGS*