I am having a hispanic/american wedding but I dont want to have a padrino for everything? What are the most important ones? I am not getting married in a catholic ceremony but I do want to incorporate some of the mexican wedding traditions, please help me!!!!

I only had only had the main ones and so is my friend who is having a beach wedding.

lasso, unity candle, and the coins (I forget the formal wording for the $$$)