My Bachelorette Party is TOMORROW!!!!! 10-11-08

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Any advice?? I hate strippers and they are having one!  How do I handle it? All the girls know I hate it. Do I just sit there and tell the guy to play nice and not molest me? Do I respectfully leave the room for the time he is there? (my girls know I hate strippers)  Do I lie and say someone else who likes them is the Bride to be?? LOL!!!

lastly..... Do you get wasted and possibly forget the whole night? Or do you just get buzzed?? I don't like drinking but I get drunk really fast!

My FI is going to spend the day with my Son. They are going to a haunted house in Woodland Hills and then to the movies and what not.  Then I asked him to please come and get me at the end of the night. LOL  I told him to make sure he calls so the stripper is not there when he gets there. LOL

lol. i dont know what to tell ya. i hate strippers too. defentily get drunk and losen up since you have no choice. once he's "done" or you're "done" with him and over it, nicely tell him to focus on the other girls cuz you're not to into this sorta thing. haha.

I think "IF" I don't walk out of the room and let another girl take my place.... I'll tell the guy really quickly... "Don't touch my privates, Don't flip me, Don't shove your head in my privates... Just dance and do your thing.. Do NOT FREAKEN Hump me!!"   I'll do that with a smile and I'll tell him in his ear so he doesn't get it wrong. LOL  I can't stand them... If they just came in and did some Dance and some erotic what ever.. then I'd be fine with them.. But they all want to touch you!!! Eeeeeekkkkkk

LMFAO. defentily tell them that list of don'ts cuz thats what they do!! in college my friends would get them for birthday parties. the first time i knew one was coming i had to take like three shots to losen up. i was so scared!  i was SHOCKED at what they do! they'd put their privates in girls faces! ewwwwwwwwwwwwwww. lol.

and they defenitly molest. dude i hope my girls dont get a stripper. ive specifically told them not to!

Omg strippers are so gross! I went to a strip club in Vegas just to do it once and the guys legs were prickly ewwww! They called me onstage and he gave me a lap dance, but I just went with it.... its like when you rip a bandaid off- short and painful.... Just make him go towards the other girls that are into that type of thing.... I think that the strippers kind of get the vipe that you aren't into it and go towards them anyways.... Good luck!

yeah, I know they work off vibe... I'm gonna have my "i'll cut your shit off if you touch me there" look.

I don't mind them.. But it's when they touch you that sickens me out.  If I go see guy on stage and they take off their clothes.. That is HOT!!!  like a show! But when they sit you in front of them or under them!!!! hahah that is as you said.. slow and painful!!  Just dance and what not. For the most part they are all ugly!  I always make the mistake of scanning them from head to toe.. I've seen ass zita. Cuts, Scrapes, scabs. (no not down there) I mean. I look them up and down and I'm like.. This guy is a regular guy out there and now here he is stripping like he's freaken "JUan the photographer" NOT!!! 

O.k as god is my witness.. If Juan (Beaties photographer) showed up!!!!!! All bets are off.. I'd be honestly and whole heartedly into Strippers!!!!!!! NO LIE!!! I'd love it!!!! But they never look like that!!!!

dreamy juan....

OMG! You had me laughing my butt off!  Juan the photographer!  What if it's your DJ on display? Hahaha!  My advice is just go with the flow.  If he does or tries to do something you don't like put a stop to it but don't play coy or whatever because that makes them do it more.  GL and just have fun which I know you will!

LMAO this was hilarious!! If they look like the photog or Fireman thats HOT, but ya I agree most of them have been UGLY, & short..hahaha I went to one in Vegas & it wasnt to bad, I didnt feel disrespected, but i went to LA BARE once & OMG I got so PISSED, the guy was trying to fill me up, I hit his hand so hard & was like "WTF B*T*H, I'm paying You to dance & PERFORM for ME, not the other way around." So I wish you all the LUCK with that & i'm with you, I dont want them either.