I was a virgin up until my wedding night and I was so so excited to finally make love to my husband, during our engagement it was all I thought about, I could hardly contain myself. Anyway, I got on the pill a couple months before my wedding and now I can't find my sex drive. I still make myself do it for the sake of my husband, but most of the time I don't even enjoy it. (this sounds sad.) My doctor has suggested alternate forms of BC, but I don't like the sounds of any of them, and I'm otherwise happy with the pill I'm on (really no other side effects.... and the trial and error process of trying out different pills doesn't sound the least bit fun either.) So I was wondering if anyone has ever tried the supplement Horny Goat Weed? (what a stupid name!) I haven't brought this up to my doctor. I've read a lot about it online and it doesn't seem to have too many negative side effects for a healthy person. I've also read that there are not any scientific studies showing that it actually does improves sex drive, but I'm willing to give it a try if it will help AT ALL. So, if you have taken it, will you please share your thoughts about it? Thanks!

While the whole process of finding a pill that works for you isn't fun, it most certainly is effective and worth it in the end! It sounds like your pill has a really common side effect of diminshing sex drive (mine does the same...I need to switch) but once you get on the correct birth control you can actual increase your sex drive!

Give it a shot, girl. You won't be sorry! :)