Recently there was an article that provided a guide to writing your own vows, it had the five questions to ask yourself before you start.  I cannot find this article!  Anyone know what I am talking about and can point me in the right direction?

Thanks!

I wish I knew, my FI wants to do this (he is a writer) and Im so nervous about it!!

Well, I found it! :)  So, you're in luck.

http://www.projectwedding.com/wedding-ideas/start-writing-your-own-vows

I also started compiling a list of the common questions to begin the writing process:

• What is the single greatest thing about the person you are going to marry?
  
• When did you know that you were in love/ know that this person was the one you wanted to marry?
  
• What does marriage mean to you? Why do you want to be a married person?
  
• What will change about your relationship once you are married? What will stay the same?
  
• What is your most favorite memory of your partner?
  
• When you were little, did you dream of your wedding day or your future spouse? How does that vision match up (or not) with your sweetheart?

• How does my soon-to-be spouse make me feel?

• How did you feel the first time you met him/her?

• What has he/she taught you about life and love?

• How do you feel when you aren't with him/her?

• What do you look forward to as you grow old together?
  

• What am I giving along with my hand in marriage?

• Is there a harrowing experience that strengthened your bond? (You think? :-P)

• What do I want my spouse to know about my devotion and love for him or her?

• What about him/her inspires you?

• What is it about your fiance that you'd like to improve in yourself?

• What do you most respect about your partner?

• What important things do I want to promise my future spouse?