FI and I are in a rut. He is getting bored with the same positions etc. he likes to sext etc. but the one time i stuck my head out and tried sexting he said something teasingly that really hurt my feelings in reply. he has apologized profusely. But now i'm nervous to try anything because of the one time i tried something out of my comfort zone he teased me in reply. I can psych my self up for it look at myself in the mirror and know he loves me and he'll love what I do. but the moment were fooling around and i think about trying something out of my comfort zone i start freaking out again and thinking he's going to tease me again. 

:/ Well that's no bueno. DH will slip up like that, but maybe not about sex. (We're in a rut and he's really careful to not do anything to make it worse.)

His rule is "If what I said can be taken two ways, and one way hurts your feelings just assume I meant the other way."

Maybe just give him another chance? It sounds like he's really sorry and didn't mean any harm by it, and would more than make up for it given the opportunity!

Try talking about any fantasies he and you would like to try. Talking about it first can help get you ready so you won't be scared to go out of your comfort zone in the moment. KWIM? Start with the small stuff and go from there :)

We get in ruts too and it sucks...but there's always a good turn around eventually!