That is also part of the issue, I wont really know who is going to come until I send the invitations out and get the rsvp's; and that is IF I get them back. I already have it planned to provide the headcount higher than what I actually
have. I rather have more than enough than not enough. After all the advice I'm cutting my list :) If they want to talk smack they can cause I already dont see them so no skin off my back. WOOT WOOT! lol
The guest list was one of the hardest parts because we could have easily been at 150/160 but had to limit it to 120. I had to make super difficult cuts and at the end of the day - it's important that you are surrounded by family and friends that
are in your life that you can't imagine your day w/o them being there.
That said, there is always the chance of feelings hurt and people talking. But they get over it. And sometimes people don't realize how much money, planning, and effort goes into planning a wedding. Good Luck! :)
If you haven't talk to them in years, do they even know your engaged? That was the question I had to ask Myself! Why am I inviting people that either my father in law or mother in law are "friends with" and I'm not?? You gotta do this for you.
its your wedding & it should be the closest people to you.