Ok ladies I thought that I could stay on track with a budget of 5000 but I got to adding up and lets just say I am so happy he loves me unconditionally because I am so far gone over they original 5000 & I still have to pay the caterer oops I guess im not good with a budget...lol.

I know how you feel!  I went over my budget by an additional 25%, but every time I tried to cut something, DH said, "But that's one of my favorite parts!"  So I gave up =)  It is stressful, when you realize how much you've spent or will spend!