Mine is basically 0.  I usually only agree to do it in the first place because I know he wants to.  Once we get started, I get in the mood most of the time, but I pretty much never want to before hand.  I've been on BCP since I became sexually active though, so I don't know if that is what is affecting it.  Sometimes it just isn't very enjoyable because I have some pain during sex that is associated with endometriosis.  :(  I went off BCP a couple of months ago though and it hasn't really gotten any better.

Well Odessa - You see I can't even bend over to clean the tub. Can't take my shirt off in front of him. It's just insane.

@meany I have the same endo pain with sex...it takes a lot to get through it. At one point in my life it was so bad that I started associating anything sexual at all with pain. SO I didn't even want to be kissed or touched at all. I'm sorry, I empathize. Exerise helped me get better with it. Lube helps as well, so does squeezing and relaxing your kegels a few times..seem to make the ache go away a bit.

@tktoups....I totally know what you mean, that's how we end up on the kitchen floor at times, because I was reaching in the oven or something when he walked in. I could be brushing my teeth and bend over to spit and that's all it takes! LOL I understand feeling like it's too much, but you really have to worry when he STOPS doing that! then you'll be like "why don't you get excited everytime I take my shirt off anymore?" LOL

Oh I totally know what you saying. I would like to be able to pass by him without being molested either by him trying to run his foot up my leg and play in areas with his toes LOL. So it's a TMI, but that's apparently what I'm known for on Friday's LOL.

Odessa - It's just sometimes it gets old when you driving down the highway in the freaking rain and he's gonna try to play with the nipples LOL.

You know what really annoys me about it??? He does things he knows I HATE!

Me, I guess.  His is pretty low, but it's due to some medication he's on.  Once we're married we may have to go talk to his doctor about switching him to something with less side effects.

FI definitely.  I'm here in guam for 2 months and havent touched myself once.  I believe he's gotten a virus on my computer from watching too much porn in my absence. lol

LOL that's a great point of reference. When my DH was away for a month I definitley had to take care of business more often than he did

we're about the same

ah in the office JoyAngela? I tried that once while visiting FI at his work but he got scared and said someone might walk in. haha. I def have my moments but FI is along the lines of what Tktoups is talking about also so he wins higher sex drive

It's definitely me...we joke that our gender roles are switched when it comes to sex.