PW Guide Article: The 6 Signs of Bridezilla

OMG! i'm part bridezilla!

whew!!! Im only a little bit bridezilla!! haha

hmmm.. I don't think I'm any of these.....maybe it's just not close enough from me to be insane. lol

Nope... not me, yet!

lol, I'm not a bridezilla...whew.

phew! not there yet

dodged that bullet. lol

Does it count if the only person you have gone MAJOR BRIDEZILLA ON, is your future Mother-In-Law? Because I have so had it with her and have told her how I feel, and yet she considers this HER wedding. I told her, once she starts paying for it, she can have as much input as she wants. We are paying for it ourselves, and everyone wants to give advice as to what we are doing wrong, or not doing at all, depending on the situation. She told me "I think WE bought enough centerpieces", and I kindly informed her that WE, did not buy enough centerpieces, I bought enough centerpieces. And if she wants to pay me for the centerpieces that she obviously believes are hers, as well, I have no problem with that. She met me at Davids Bridal the day my girls were trying on the gowns in the colors I picked. When she showed up (without my knowledge), she wanted to add her input, "those colors don't look good". "I think you should go with these colors". The ladies at Davids had to make her leave the dressing area, so I can have my say in the colors. And if I may say so myself, my girls are going to be beautiful. Oh, another thing about dresses. I bought my dress. It is hanging up in its bag, by my door. Get this. When my girls and I left Davids, we went out to eat and talk about the dresses, and what they thought of them. They all agreed they were very comfortable in them, and being that they are satin, they feel really good. Well, wouldnt you know it, future mother-in-law, showed up at the resturant, and had herself seated with us. And in front of my girls, said, "you shouldnt eat too much, you'll never fit into your dress. It already fits just right, and you dont want to gain too much weight". "If you get too fat, they wont be able to let the dress out".

I am ready to wrap my decorative garland around her neck and hang her!! I have talked to my future husband, and he said he would talk to her, since she is his mother. He did, and yet she is still giving her opinion, unwanted. She has been at me since I started planning. So, I took a break from it. And now I am regretting that I took that break, because I think it put me behind. So, if my wedding is ruined, I am blaming it on her!! She is driving me insane, and there is nothing I can do about it, short of hanging her. Am I supposed to be this stressed out by her?

Any ideas what I can do? Because what I would like to do, is illegal, lol. I am a very sweet-natured person, and very rarely get upset by anything. I am usually a go with the flow kinda girl. But I believe she has me at the end of my rope, and I still have 9 months to go until the day of the wedding.

Yeah I think I am ok... for now ;)