I took the liberty to copy some of these great ideas..this is what i did
Hand written notes put in an envelop pasted on a hand made card

The note which was customized for each bridemaid read
Something old, Something new, Something borrowed, Something blue
And still the day wouldn’t be complete without you
Shamz, my extraordinaire best friend
I know this goes without saying since we made a pact more than four
years ago, but I need to ask
Will you be my bridesmaid?
Lets hope you say yes, or this could get awkward
- Your Role -
I hear weddings can become a lot of work for bridesmaids, so this wont be any exception
As my bridesmaid your job will include and will not be limited to:
Help me run a few errands while I remote plan the wedding
Feel beautiful
Hold some gorgeous flowers and at times my veil
Stop me from turning into a bridezilla
Stop me from turning into a runaway bride
Understand how much your presence is appreciated
Know how much I love you
Basically you have
to have a complete blast and keep my sanity in tact
