Well, my wedding is still 8 months away..but i have been given some marriage advice.
my FSIL told me the number one thing to remember: laugh. Don't sweat things in the heat of the moment and don't get sucked into the drama. remember to laugh with your husband often to avoid drama and arguments. that's not to say you should
never argue, however, you should realize what it is you are arguing about...and don't forget to laugh. taking things in stride and not blowing things up because you feel "you're supposed to" helps in remembering why you fell in love with that man
in the first place.
The other thing I've been told: stop worrying about how others see your relationship or worrying about making everyone else happy. because at the end of the day...it's you and him, not "you two" and everyone else. It's you and him
against the world. :)
