^That's all fine but I guess I don't get why you would have them in your wedding. If they're not carrying the actual rings, what's the point? Personally I'd be okay with a 3 year old carrying our rings if they were tied to the
pillow. Heck, I would trust my 2 year old brother to do it, but then he is very smart and well-behaved (lol that came out wrong! I'm not saying your kids are not smart or well-behaved!) But really, how long is that aisle that the kid
is going to drop it or screw it up? A couple of people suggested my brother should carry our rings but I'm just not into kids in weddings. A lot of pressure for him, and if he happens to be having a nap or something (or wants to)
the whole deal is screwed up. It's important to us that he is there, even though he won't know what the heck is going on, but I don't want to have the hassle of giving him a role in the wedding.
I sort of feel like having the kids in the wedding without the actual ring is just like for show, to dress them up and have people looking at how cute they are. I don't know if that's a bad thing or a good thing? If it is your kid or
a kid you really love, I spose it's nice to have them in the wedding. Anyway I live in Australia and it's not that common for people to have RBs here. So I was just confused about it!