I am sorry that you are having such trouble! It makes me sad when people minimize the struggle of others with fertility issues just b/c they have ben lucky to conceive before. My BIL's brother is the oldest of 7 and his mom also
raised 3 of her younger siblings. Coming from a big family, he always wanted one of his own - and married a woman hoping for the same. They became unexpectedly pregnant early in their marriage (while he was on break from before the start of
his final yr of law school) and had a beautiful little girl. It took them 15 years and several miscarriages to successfully conceive again and now have a 5 yr old boy. It was a tough road and I give them a lot of credit - I don't know if
I could have tried that long! I hope you have similar success!
And if it were me, I would start the OPKs and temps now just to see if I could detect a pattern. I learned so much from doing that myself and it has helped me to realize that my body is still a bit out of whack right now from my m/c.
My dr thought I would have had more bleeding by now (had lots early on and then spotting again when numbers started to fall), but my temps have still not plummeted like they do when AF comes to town. It also helped me realize I O really late
(usually CD18) so I would have timed it wrong if I went by online estimates - esp since I don't produce much EWCM to help DH's swimmers live longer. All of that said, hopefully you will have BFP by Dec 7th and all of this will be moot! GL!
