I need to get this off of my chest..... with all the RSVP drama... I've really come to realize just who truly loves us and cherishes us... and who are the selfish people I was fooled into thinking were "friends". Another one of my "friends" just backed out of her Yes RSVP... apologizing for telling us yes, and hoping it wasn't too late to back out because she gets tired these days and can't imagine travelling 2 hours..... ARE YOU KIDDING ME???? We already submitted our numbers... and I flat out told her we did. I am SO MAD. SO SO SO MAD!

I think that is so rude!!  Don't people understand that a lot of things are paid for by person?  If they said yes, they need to keep that commitment.  It's not like we all have money to just throw around!  I think that is totally rude of your friend, and her excuse?  LAME.  I would reconsider your friendship with this lady...

I am SO SO MAD with you!!!!!!!!!!!!!

What a whore she is.

((HUGS!))

I would be mad too...

Sorry Girlly... {{hugs}}

*hugs* I'm sorry, I'd be mad too. You're getting really close now though....so try not to let all this stuff get to you..try to enjoy the good and fun stuff coming up :D It's their loss!

THANK YOU girls..... your words really mean a lot to me! I'm so furious and hurt I can't describe it! I've had so many "friends" flake.... its just ridiculous! You don't tell the host 2 weeks out that you've changed your mind... sorry... I must say I'm grateful she at least told me instead of standing me up... but either way I'm paying for her and her husbands plate! WTH is wrong with ppl... her wedding was just last year.... do they forget this easily?? I will NEVER put another bride through the mess my guests have put me in....

Kaytana... I'm trying my hardest to focus on the good and the fun! These ppl suck... they are missing out SO bad its not even funny! lol They'll be kicking themselves when they see the pictures!!

People do suck!  We had 8 no show's at our wedding...4 of them replied no on the RSVP then changed their mind and we WORKED them back into the seating chart and they DIDN'T show up...didn't even send a card or anything.

Our wedding was in October - can you tell I'm still mad :)

OMG.... princess... *huge hugs* You can stay mad as long as you like.... you definitely have good reason to! I'm so shocked at the rudeness... just horrible!!!

Ha, thanks Girlly :)

The good thing is I did not let it ruin my wedding day!  BUT the next day was another story!

Annnnddd - they aren't you "true" friends if they don't want to be part of your special day, so screw them!!!!!!

What the?! That's just plain RUDE RUDE RUDE!!!! You can't come to your friend's wedding because lately you've been tired?!?! Who uses that excuse to get out of an event??? She's lame, don't even bother with her!! Let me and FI come to your wedding and done! :) j/k!! hehe No, seriously don't let her get to you, it is her loss! I'm pretty sure that two other friends or distant family members would LOVE to join in on your party? ;)