My DHs best friend got divorced recently after his wife left him, they had been married for 4 years. Turned out she had been cheating on him for the last 2 years with every joe dick and harry she met. Originally she got pregnant with our goddaughter to trap DHs best friend. He married her because yes he did love her but more for their daughter. She was a horrible mom and actually left her daughter when she left him for a guy who just got out of jail. Now she is pregnant with the jail guys baby after being together for 3 months....OMG. 

Things like this make me so angry. Shes an awful mom who treated their daughter like a dress up toy. She was dishonest and lies to her friends and family on a constant basis just to get what she wants. I am not friends with her anymore, we stopped being friends apparently right before she started this cheating nonsense.

She is one of those women who has children for the money the govt gives her and to trap her man. It so frustrating deep down because for her it's so easy. The ladies here are in loving relationships and we work hard for what we have yet we struggle so much with getting pregnant. Why does it have to be so hard for those that deserve it and so easy for those that shouldn't?

that makes me vomit.

Yeah me too! I have her phone number and it's taking every ounce of strength in my body not to call her and tell her just what I think of her. BUt I am not going to go down to her level.

Our history runs deep and we were best friends, I was her MOH at her wedding and we were tight but then had a huge falling out which like I said was just before she started cheating apparently. She called me some horrible things and attacked me for being a student with support parents..etc. People told me to forgive her and be friends again but deep down I couldn't and now I see why I felt that way. 

I feel so bad for this child that is coming, it deserves better:(

WOW...thats about all i can say.  You are exactly right, some peopel should have kids!  Like WM I think I just threw up in my mouth a little...

i've discovered that people who should not be parents are super fertile mega babymakers...

some friends of friends are adopting a baby (this week in fact), and this is the 6th pregnancy for that baby mama....she only kept 1....at least she's doing the right thing...

Don't even get me started on people having children that have no business doing so! I work for child protective services as a social worker in the adoptions department. It's amazing how easy it is for some dead beats to get KU and have not one, not two, but NINE children only to have them removed because of abuse or neglect. Many of them have a baby, get it taken away, and have another one 11 months later...over and over and over. Meanwhile, so many of our couples come to us just wanting ONE child because they can't biologically have their own. Totally makes no sense to me...

Compulsory sterilization is a great thought when I think of people like these. 

I work in the ER and see young girls threatening miscarriage and on their 5th pregnancy reeking of cigarettes, giggling with their friends thinking it's funny. God then they have the nerve to ask for a taxi voucher. Don't have babies if you can't even pay for a cab! I would totally get fired if I actually said what I thought:)

Makes me sick:(. I have some family members who got KU super easy...neither of them has had a job the entire time they've been pregnant until now...and the baby is almost 2.  Every diaper bought, formula, piece of clothing has been purchased by his parents. It's not that they aren't able to work, they just feel above it and act like they are entitled to everything. 

danidabi- I don't think I could hold my tongue if I had to here what you do. It's absolutely disgusting. :(

no kidding! I am reminded everyday of this at my job. Yesterday was a GREAT example. Im am the director of a child care center. I had to prevent a father from picking up his child yesterday, because when he arrived, his eyes were red and glassy, pupils dialated and he reaked of weed! There was no doubt in my mind that he was high as a kite. I swear he must have smoked a bowl right before he walked through the door because the smell was linging in the office even after he left. I felt really awkward calling him out, but I HAD to do it. Its my job. I could/should have probably even taken it further but I just asked that he have someone else come and pick up his child because I would not release him to his custody when he was under the influence.