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theloops
10/10/2008 at 09:21 am

I’m having the worst morning ever.....so my FI had something important to tell me today and let me say it has me in tears.... so we have been planning our wedding since November of last year and we had everything booked for our wedding next June...well now he says that instead of having a nice wedding he wants to cut it down to close family and close friends which would mean a wedding in his mom's back yard.......i mean we have been planning this wedding since November and now he tells me.....don’t get me wrong i wanted a small wedding since the beginning but after all this planning and working two jobs to have this wedding he decides that the economy is doing really bad and that we should buy a house even though that was already our plan but now he thinks that that should be our main focus.....i know he’s right and i agree with him but i still feel this horrible pain in my heart....

 

I’m sorry ladies i just need to vent.....: (

 

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*hayley*
10/10/2008 at 09:26 am

Vent away. Thats disappointing, but your wedding will still be the most beautiful day of your life!

Is there any way he will reconsider?

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WMforever
10/10/2008 at 09:26 am

aww looops!! times are really rough and your fiance sounds like a strong sane man. especially since he sat you down to talk to you about it. and it sounds like you are a strong and sane woman to agree. i totally agree with you guys and think you're making a very wise decision. i have seen some amazing home weddings that are so sweet and romantic. yours will be too! and you'll save so much money and get your home sooner than you thought!

 

i've seriously considered doing what you guys are doing (smaller wedding) at this point we have put down big deposits and are too far into the game :(

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d1rtymart1n1 hostess
10/10/2008 at 09:31 am

whew!!!  i thought it was gonna be something like he got in accident or one of you got laid off or a family member in the hospital or passed away...

oh hon - i know it may be disappointing - but there are far worst things in life to make your morning awful...   not trying to be rude - but really, scaling back will be a blessing in disguise, i promise! =)

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theloops
10/10/2008 at 09:31 am

yeah i know i love him he always thinks ahead of everything i guess thats why he has everything under control all the time..lol.... but i love him and i know thats all that matters but it still hurts to know that everything we have been working for well no longer happin.......i guess now here comes more planning.....: )

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SFBridefromLA
10/10/2008 at 09:31 am

awww loops! *hugs* Sorry to hear... Maybe you guys can compromise somehow?? Have a small wedding at the same venue? Maybe even doing it on a Friday or Sunday?? That'll keep the costs down i'm sure!

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Jaryce21
10/10/2008 at 09:37 am

Oh no. I'm so sorry to hear that. Your FI does have a valid point. But I totally feel your disappointment because you have been planning and working so hard for a big wedding. Have you sent out the invites yet?

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budoh
10/10/2008 at 09:54 am

Mmmmmm loops... I'm so sorry... I know you're disappointed... but I have a good feeling that your new master wedding plan will be just as beautiful! 

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perky8304
10/10/2008 at 10:05 am

I think it will still be really nice... i understand the disappointment especially since you have put so much effort into the original vision but i think you will make it beautiful no matter where it is...

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theloops
10/10/2008 at 10:09 am

the good thing is that we havent sent out any save the dates yet becasue we were waiting for my brother to print our our engagment pictures to put on the cards...so i guess everything happins for a reason.....geeze ladies you are the best......i feel 10 times better allready.....

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