Thank Yous....

Just curious, did you send thank you cards to EVERYONE???  Even the people that didn't get you gifts???  I was actually surprised how many people didn't get us a gift OR even a card?  Not that Im needy or anything, I just personally could never show up to a wedding empty handed- or maybe thats just me?

Just curious on your thoughts...

- HMM :)

yes... send them a thank you for sharing your day

HMM--- which pic did you decide on?? i loved all 4!!

what if you have a crazy-huge guest list and you're not exactly sure if some people even came because you were having such a fabulous time? Just go off of the guest book?

HMM - I'm stuck with that dilemna right now too!  I'm soo behind on TY cards and am just now ordering them.  I'm surprised at how many guests (mostly my husband's single guy friends) that didn't bring a gift or even a card.  And they brought guests too!  Some I understand are grad students and aren't working but atleast a card!! 

We've decided to send them a TY for coming card.  Technically guests have a year to buy a gift but I think it's not happening!

btw:  Soon2be - one of the ways you can tell if the guest didn't attend is by the escort cards that are left behind the sign in table at the end of the wedding.  Granted some people don't grab the cards and just find their way to the table but that's one of the ways to figure it out.

So we picked all three like you suggested Dirty and Im sending them out randomly- but GUESS WHAT- Im so bummed- we got our other pictures and I love his Thank You pictures way better haha figures... O'well :)

Anyway, Im finishing them up right now and running out!  I still need to do the no-present guests, the vendors, and non-guests that ACTUALLY got us something haha...  So wierd, I don't want to seem ungrateful- I didn't expect gifts from some people, but there were a few surprises IMO

Even my 2 bridesmaids didn't get us something- or even a card.  Its not like were not getting along or their poor haha they are just young and not very thoughtful I guess- I dunno?

- HMM :)

We got some gifts from those we didn't invite!  I felt so guilty when I received the gift!

I know- we did too!!!  So weird sometimes how things happen...

We actually wondered if some were missing???  My sister's MIL didn't even get us anything- and shes ALWAYS a gift giver haha but for our young single guy friends we weren't surprised- weird how we have different expectaions of people :)

-done-

Yea, I hear ya - I would feel weird too - you'd think people would be thoughtful enough to think about even just a card?  I would be tempted not to send one to everyone (I'm so lazy hehe) but I would probably feel guilty and just send em all out...

I am starting to realize that some people just aren't as considerate as others - not that they're trying to be rude or mean anything bad, but it just doesn't occur to them, if that makes sense :)

No, that totally makes sense Spot!  (Thats exactly how my BM's are!) 

Like many gals say on here- until they actually go thorugh it themselves- they will understand...