rant and vent

so i wrote the vent erased it an im back again, so needless to say i have had alot of bumps in the road through out this planning process with my mother at the source of them. 

any who this past weekend it happen again except it was both my mom an my maid of honor whos my sister 

over our joint bachlor party, we have planned it for the weekend before as so many people do, an my sister gets a call from her boss with a job opportunity, i get she needs the money, but we have had this planned an so we all get in a huge fight over it, they say that since i wont change it im choosing our party over family, when the fact of the matter is she is choosing working over their quote family, normally i try not to air my dirty laundry but im so heart broken that it is now both my mom an sister , a i feel i should email them an be like if your gonna say im choosing party over family then be a hypocrite because your doing the same thing , but i cant seem to bring myself to email them i don't know if i should let it go have our party without her or point out the hypocrisy of the matter 

thanks for listening i needed this vent i knew my girls would get it , its odd my good friend whos like my mom , my dad ,step mom everyone but them get it

I am sorry ur feeling sad about this. I agree with you - they are just trying to guilt you. I am hoping they will get over it. Is it absolutely imperative you have a joint party?

it is the date of the party thats the problem with my sister , its the fact that its together thats my mothers problem. 

neither of us even wanted to have party because we aren't much into the bar/club/stripclub thing so we thought not have them but then we thought no lets do it together an go to dave an busters play games/pool/bowl with all our friends 

im sure it seems trivial but in whole process of things its added up to a big blow to me