I find when I give a HJ I feel like I am milking a cow.  LOL  Nope, not sexy.  Fortunitly it is not his preference.

I need help being on top.  I never know what to do.  I just end up with sore legs.  ;(

ALso like niecy I am always tired at night.

I suck at being on top as well, I also have found myself to be getting lazy in the initiation as well

Actually when Im on top I prefer it when he does the work .... that is one of the best  :)  

Oh my hand jobs kick butt (according to fi by words and actions if you kwim)!

I am not good at 69... not at all :(  i get into it and forget that I'm supposed to be doing something too...

I just get BORED with HJs. I feel like after a while, I'm tired, it's taking FOR.EV.ER and he's having a great time but I'm just sitting down there thinking about what to make for dinner and when is my W2 gonna be there etc etc. 

This is terrible, but once he looked down and I had my head in my chin and I wasn't even looking at him, LOL. He was like "havin fun?!" 

.......oops?

I like to be on top but my weight plays a BIG part in how long I can stay on top...  After a few minutes my hips & knees start hurting...  My FI loves BJs and in the past I have been VERY good at them, but not with him...  It takes FOREVER and I can NEVER get him off like that...

lmao@ katie.  The expression in your profile pic makes me just be able to picture you all bored and doing errands in your head while you're giving him a HJ.  Too funny!

I'm bad at being on top.  I just am.  Nothing comes naturally there and I have no rhythm or coordination there.  It's so embarrassing.  LOL

need help initating... im so bad at that.. even though i think about DTD daily i almost never go for it unless he starts

@ Niecy, I am the same way.  I mean he enjoys it and he gets attention though there are a few things that I could do more often.  ;o)