This is my 1st DTD post!

So, I am wondering- how long is too long???

My husband seriously goes an hour+ every time! I think it's too long- I get tired and my mind goes somewhere else. I have tried so many tricks in the book to make the firework blow sooner. I got it down to about 45 mins once... I'm getting so tired!

Advice? Tricks?

nope i havent figured that out , if ya do let me know , on occasion i get what your saying, however i think i rather have it be our regular 45 to hr then 5 mins an done

Dh only lasts super long when he's been drinking and that gets frustrating because usually if I'm going to "go", I will do it in 20 minutes time. Any more after that, it's just not gonna happen, but DH will get it in his head that he can MAKE IT HAPPEN. Then I hate to say it, but I get tired and bored.

I've found that going down on him beforehand is a sure-fire way to make him go quickly. When I do it, there's a lot of teasing involved to make the anticipation that much greater. Also, lots of kissing - like heavy, p0rno make-out type of kissing. Also, dry-huumping. Sounds silly, but it totally works for us.

I just want to get it to 30-45 minutes as the norm. lol 5 minutes would not be ok either. I am like BlissfulKate... 20 minutes and I'm good and it gets very hard for me to go on for 30 minutes after that.

OMG!  I would die of exhaustion if it was that long.

Uh...agree. Past about 20-30 minutes I'm over it. I start thinking about that book on my bedside table that I'm wanting to read or the fact that I'm thirsty...whatever, you get the idea lol. 

Me too girl.. anything longer than 20 is enough already. My mind starts to wander to the grocery  list and other things that need to be done around the house.

LOL…15 max. for me! Then I’ll start the acting part J hon, I really have to go pee… then its done in a minute…LOL

wow, thats way too long! 20min is enough for me. I know know what advice to give you...he can't last that long when its just him (kwim?) ask him what he does when its just him. I know when DH and I haven't done it in a while he finishes a lot faster.

I'm good after like 15mins! I couldn't handle going that long!