This is one of those posts that I have read and thought to myself...I am NOT the only one out there thinking the same thing!! We are easily 45 min to an hour and it sometimes makes me not want to even start.  I feel awful for thinking that!!

I feel the same way. Dont get me wrong, I love DTD with the hubby, but this timing thing really does make it harder.

OMG I totally understand you that happened once with us I think it was longer than 45 minutes and I was like OMH I am sore...UM...I need to go pee, I think I said that like every 5 minutes for another 30 minutes after that and we just finally went to sleep UGH!!! Usually we are around 20 minutes anything after that unless I am drunk is totally the start of my acting career (without pay) LOL I love FH but dang it kind of feels like "the poo" is getting beat up!!!

Wow...that is seriously long. I like it in the 15-30minute range. Beyond that I just don't enjoy it anymore.

20 minutes is just right and 30 is pushing it...but an hour...no can do!  I found that certain positions will make my FI climax faster, when it's starting to go too long, doggystyle usually does the trick.

the ice was CRAZY weird. He liked it but didnt speed it up. Trying to look at it in a good light... im getting creative, getting exercise, and at least its not ONE minute...

We had that problem.....when we just started sleeping together it took him like 1 hour and we did it like everyday....well after a week it hurt so bad that I could not do anything....I mean the pain was way more intense than when having sex for the first time.. I went to the doctor and she said that I had little tears because it was probably too loong and I needed to apply lube very 10 minutes. Well now I give him a treat down there (lol) before sex, and it cuts it down to 30 minutes :) I can handle that.

Well when we have a quickie its literally like 3 minutes lol.

Then regularly its about 20 minutes.

Rarely, it's about an hour. Honestly I love when it lasts an hour! I love switching into all the positions and just having that time with him... no tv, no xbox, nothing! I love it!

An hour on a regular basis would kill me.

DH was on some low anxiety pills when we got together. So he decided to go off of them to see if he could handle all the stress from his job without them. During that time, he could literally go for an hour, finish, THEN be ready to go within 3 minutes. It killed me. And, honestly, when he went back on them, I was sooooo happy because sex went back down to a super manageable time :-D