To weave or not to Weave?

That is the question.....whether 'tis nobler in the mind to suffer with a not full enough hairdo that I want or to take arms against a pack of Remy....

I think I know how I want my hair for the day but I don't know if it will grow long enough in time for it.  What should I do?  Any ladies use a weave?  This is actually my first time thinking about it to consider it.  HEEEEEEEEEEELP MEEEEEEEEEEEE!

Hi Hun, I don't know what to tell u, I was thinking of doing the same but I ended up growing it out instead. You should do what ever makes u feel like yourself on your wedding day, trust me if u love wearing the Remy and then u would miss it on your day. I personally tried so hard to avoid it because if I do wear one I pull it out in one week so that's why I say to u go for what mows u comfortable with yourself on your special day. You would look beautiful with any style.

If it isn't long enough, do you have a plan B hair style that would make your as happy? If not, i'd say weave it and cross it off your list! 

If it isn't long enough, do you have a plan B hair style that would make your as happy? If not, i'd say weave it and cross it off your list! 

I don't usually wear weave that's why I have an issue lol!  I saw a style I like and my hair is already on the long side.  I was thinking I'll just be patient and wait and see how long it is when the year rolls around.  Care to share a photo of your wedding day hair since we're here?

I use to wear weave a lot. After my parents died I just let it start to grow. But if you finld that your natural hair has not grown out to the length you desire the atleast 3 months beforethe big day give the weave a try. In your bio your hair is beautiful. But the choice is yours.

Thanks Jan! & you other blusing brides also!  I just asked my friend who is a cosmetologist and she kinda looked at me funny and said I don't really need to grow my hair at all for the style I want so Y A A Y !

& cJane I did have a backup just in case!

Here are a few styles I'm considered, I have length but not this length. I have been toying around with this idea as well, FSIL told me to just go ahead and weave it but I think I may just add some pieces. I plan to do a trial with the weave after the bachelorette party and will post photos.

it pretty much depends on how you want to wear your hair. 

you can use all kinds of wigs or cushions. only if you want ur hair lose, things get complicated

I have thick curly hair so I'll do a blow out. If it isn't full enough we will do the padding which is what my friend said to do.