How traditional are you ladies when it comes to your wedding? What traditions are you keeping, nixing, tweaking and/or creating?

fairly traditional but we're nixing the garter and bouquet toss, we're writing our vows, and we're not doing any traditional music either

Ditto on hurleygrl135, though undecided on the bouquet toss. Probably won't.  We are having a family friend marry us, which is so exciting and such a kind thing to do.

We are having an uncle marry us.  I'm not too sure about the bouquet toss and the garter yet.  I want to keep the ceremonial stuff to a minimum, but I might like us to write a little bit of our own vows.

We are doing a mix of traditional and non traditional things. We are going to write our own vows and my cousin is going to marry us. We are getting married outdoors and we are going to do a first look. But we are doing traditional things like garter/bouquet toss, cake cutting, first dance and whatnot.