Dear FI,

 When I asked you to put money into our "bill account" , do it! Now since you are so selfish and were surfing on ebay ALL last night and didn't put the money in the account the bill did not clear!!! Now we are being charged a fee from the bank, and a fee from the other place. THANKS FOR NOT LISTENING, and messing up our account. Now like everything I have to do in our life- I have to call and get all of this straightened out!!!

P.S.

Don't talk to me about stress from this wedding, you wanted this big fiasco, and you haven't done sht to help me- NOTHING!!!

Sincerely,

ME

(shakes head) When you want something done right....

Do you want to borrow my darling little Groomzilla for a week or two? He's ALL into planning :)

this sounds so familiar. I told FI to transfer money from my account to pay our electric bill before I went to work today. I just got home from a 9.5 hour shift and asked him if he did it and he said, " Oh I still have to transfer the money. " It is just a couple clicks online, DO IT!!!

I'm doing everything myself from now on. UGH.

My FI wanted the big wedding too - I wanted a destination wedding knowing I didn't want to do all this planning to make other people happy... and of course he has hardly done anything for the wedding. I have to keep reminding him to do stuff and I hate that because I feel like I'm nagging... Just do it. I've done 90% of the planning/work, you can handle making table names- it was your idea to begin with...

And I'm sure we would have bounced checks as well after we get married; but I will be taking over the finances... :P