ummm Hair?

I think the flower is perfect for your ensemble.

You've got amazing hair, girl!!!  :D

Honestly, I LOVE everything about your ensemble and either hair piece would work!  In fact, I'd personally find a way to squeeze in both - one for the ceremony and one for the reception!  ;)  lol  BUT if I had to choose, I'd go with this one!!!  It's absolutely gorgeous!!!

I really  love both looks, but maybe, with everything together it would be to much....but what if I do a headband with a siliar feel (chiffon flowers on it, just a more similar  version) I'm gonna try to find a photo .hummmm :oP ....and thanks for the complements on my hair :) ...my hair was always unruly and frizzy until I started using Moroccan oil cream for curly  hair, it seriously is a miracle product.my sister is a hair stylist and color specialist , she introduced it me to it  and im soooo glad she did because I am a spaz when it comes to doing my hair , I used to flat iron it all the time because I never knew how elese  to manage  it ....that damaged  my hair pretty bad, but thanks to MO my hair doesn't friz anymore. I just through it in and naturally  air dry my hair, I haven't  used a hair dryer or flat iron in years now ( except if I do a swoopy bang, then I dry my bangs)....my sister is responsible for my color too ...as much as I love dark hair, it washes me out ;p 

I definitely love the second one~!  The flower goes better with your dress and shoes.

Oh I love the Boho Headband. Think it will look great with your long hair

I am so jealous of your hair!!!! And now that that's off my chest....

I really like both! I agree with Santosha you could do both, one for the ceremony and one for the reception! 

Your entire ensemble is stunning!

flower! i can't wait to see the whole outfit put together!

lol Thanks so much for all the complements on my hair!... but really, its a pain in the ass...its to thick for me to really put it up, there are very few updos that will work for me, kind of a bummer =P and up until recently it was always frizzy and out of control...THANK YOU MOROCAN OIL <3

anywhos, for those of you that think I should do both, I would LOVE to do that...but This is only a one hour photo shoot for our 5th wedding anniversary, not a wedding... so i wont have the opportunity to change it...As of now, I'm still kind of on the fence, I'm thinking either the flower or a more simplistic version of this headband, as I LOVE it, its sooo me, but after reading your comments, realized it may indeed be too much with everything together =P. When I find another headband, I'll post for your opinions, Thanks sooo much for your ladies!! I'd be lost without you ;)

They are both beautiful! But you don't want to take away from the dress. I would do the flower!

i would go for the boho..go girl..