***UPDATE: My Dad***

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UPDATE:

I posted earlier about my dad and how he truly hurt me.  First off, I want to say thanks to all those that offered advice whether it was on the boards, through PM'd or toasts.  Thanks a million.  So we spoke today and I told him how I felt and how he hurt me.  He explained that he was hurt because he didn't want to stay by my brother because his mother was there.  What does this mean? My dad was married to my older siblings mother for 10 years prior to meeting my mom.  They don't really get along, so he didn't want to be around her.  I just could care less though, I couldn't get over the hurt.  So I told him, he could have explained this situation and if he was so uncomfortable he should have returned to the Bahamas.  He apologized and said he loved me.  However, before he did he asked about the money I was suppose to send him.  I didn't  mentioned that he said he didn't want anything from me.  So I told him I sent it already which I still did the next day after this all transpired.  I wont lie, I still feel bad because I feel he more forgot about everything for the money but I am better.

The conversation may not have turned out quite how you wanted it to or hoped, but I think in the end that a conversation was had, is a good thing.  It cleared the air somewhat and you were both able to explain your side of things and how you were feeling.  

Big hugs!

Thanks so much. I agree with you 100%. Hugs to you!

I'm so glad that you both talked. I wish it was a better conversation but I'm sure it will get better in time. I hope you feel better getting those issues off your chest and now you can focus on more important matters ...YOU and your family. ...and the wedding, of course :P