I give FH ONE task! I asked him to pick our first dance song because I just wasn't really attached to any one song at the time and for the most part we listen to the same kind of music. He is a little bit more "old school" than I, so that is what I expected him to pick.

He picks this:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bG5N3GC-m20&feature=fvsr

O..M..G

He has been married before and always said he never would again, so this song means alot to him. He even gave me "that face". And it's not so much that I dislike the song, I just think people aren't going to get it KWIM

GRRRRRR

So sorry hon.  I would be upset too.  I agree...it is not the best song for a first dance.  Maybe you could compromise and use it in some other way like for the processional or as he is taking his place at the altar. 

What is the song ??  I can't you tube at work

It's George Michael- One More Try

lyrics:

I've had enough of danger
And people on the streets
I'm looking out for angels
Just trying to find some peace
Now I think it's time
That you let me know
So if you love me
Say you love me
But if you don't just let me go...

'Cos teacher
There are things that I don't want to learn
And the last one I had
Made me cry
So I don't want to learn to
Hold you, touch you
Think that you're mine
Because it ain't no joy
For an uptown boy
Whose teacher has told him goodbye, goodbye, goodbye

When you were just a stranger
And I was at your feet
I didn't feel the danger
Now I feel the heat
That look in your eyes
Telling me no
So you think that you love me
Know that you need me
I wrote the song, I know it's wrong
Just let me go...

And teacher
There are things
That I don't want to learn
Oh the last one I had
Made me cry
So I don't want to learn to
Hold you, touch you
Think that you're mine
Because it ain't no joy
For an uptown boy
Whose teacher has told him goodbye, goodbye, goodbye

So when you say that you need me
That you'll never leave me
I know you're wrong, you're not that strong
Let me go

And teacher
There are things
That I still have to learn
But the one thing I have is my pride
Oh so I don't want to
Hold you, touch you
Think that you're mine
Because there ain't no joy
For an uptown boy
Who just isn't willing to try

I'm so cold
Inside
Maybe just one more try...

Ok I know the song ...... ummmmm ... I love music and I "get it"  ..however I really think people will think this is creepy and weird for a first dance ....

Maybe start suggesting some songs "you"  love or think would be perfect and see if you can get him on board

Oh no!!! Veto this one and quick!

Ewwww, no, no, no.  Horrible choice. 

um..... wowza