What have been your vow renewal pet peeves?

ME:

The lack of support from family and other brides that are not renewing vows.

It seems people don't take renewals seriously. They figure your already married why do it again. Im sorry but in this day in time anyone lasting past the first few years is cause to celebrate....not to mention the 14 years that we've been married. I want to scream to the world that we're still happily married.

And, the lack of items for renewals....everything says wedding on them they need more stuff that says vow renewal.

~high five~ JohnsWife0919 People seem to glorify weddings instead of the marriage!

My pet peeve is the same as both of you but I will add that my MIL is a pain in the toe....(you know what I really want to say ;-P)