I just read your last entry and with that being said, given your situation, you could probably wait a year with no problem. My FH and I live together and we work different shifts too(only until the wedding) but he and I find it a stress
reliever from this cruel, cruel world. lol We find time for it. Before we began abstaining, we would have sex at least 4 times a week, so 4 months feels like a year to us, but for you, I definitely think you and your FH can manage for a
year and it adds some extra excitement the night of the wedding.