Thanks for all the kind words =) We really did have the best time. I can honestly say my family is closer then they have ever been before. Everyone was just so happy and relaxed. The families got along great, the band kicked ass, the food was perfect, The cake was sooooo good, The flowers... well she couldn't get my flowers...so I went to see what flowers she did have the day before and they were perfect, and it's amazing what votive candles and paper lanterns can do for an atmosphere. Even after the wedding was over it wasn't over. I had my bon fire on the beach and we all hung out by it, family, friends, and the band so we had music by the fire too, they started playing bongos and horns it was amazing..... I couldn't have asked for a more perfect day strike that, a more perfect week.