I had a bridesmaid that I didn't even know if she was going to show up on the big day. I just let it go and decided if she was there then she was and if not I didn't care. I know it's easier said than done, but just let it go. Replace your lack
of patience with strength and enjoy your day.
Hmmm...besides my mom who wrote a horrible letter to me when I was 21 and stuck it in my baby book and just gave it to me recently (I'm 33 now) and knew I would read it.
But my cousin recently got back together with his baby's mama. She is sweet, but I thought she wasn't coming to the wedding b/c he just left for Kuwait for a new job for 6 months. And now I hear she is coming to the
wedding. Even though he won't be there. And they are only pseudo back together. but he wants her to feel like she is part of the family. Huh? Really? I like her and all, but maybe they should work on their crap a little more first.