Mine is communication...I just think he can read my mind regarding things I want him to do and need him to do....WRONG.  But I am learning....and trying to grow.

Jealousy_ DH is friendly to everyone and sometimes it drives me nuts! I am quite and reserved but he will talk to anyone and everyone. I know its something I need to work on.

We've been married THREE DAYS lol, but here are the things I know we have to work on: 

CLEANING: NEITHER of us is clean AT. ALL. But...that being said, I really like things to be clean. I get to a certain level of dirtiness and I just cant function until it's taken care of. Colin...not so much. He could live in filth for weeks and weeks and it just doesn't bother him. We really need to get into a habit of making sure our living space is something we can be proud of. 

MONEY: I used to be such a spender and now I am a TOTAL tightwad. Colin is the big spender, but he's NOT the big earner. He's never concerned about our financial situation until it is way too late and he's the type to think "oh, we have 100 dollars in our account, we're fine." Well, I tend to think if you have 100 dollars in your account you might as well have nothing, lol. We really need to work on that. 

NAGGING: this is allllllll me. I get really balled up about nothing at all, especially because he's so stubborn. I know how to fix this one and I'm working on it...instead of beating him over the head to do something I'm trying to ask nicely and work together to get it done. It's working, but it's DEFINITELY a process.