There are (in my opinion) two key factors in choosing a wedding photographer: 1) make sure you LOVE their work, and 2) make sure your personalities click
If you don't LOVE/ADORE/OBSESS OVER (you get the idea lol) over their work now, chances are you won't LOVE/ADORE/OBSESS OVER your wedding photos. We tend to be our worst critics. Plus, I want to make sure this person will make my skin look best,
my eyes shine, and make me look as thin as possible haha :)
You don't need to make a friend for life. You just need someone to take pics for one day and do it well.
I have to respectfully disagree with this statement. As a bride (and a photographer for that matter), everyone wants great/fun business relationships. It makes the process so much better, smoother, more fun. A photographer is someone who will
take the memories from your wedding day and put them on a permanent tangible object for you to look at for years to come. THEY are the ones responsible for capturing everything so you can happily remember it....ABSOLUTELY I want them to be my
friend!!! I want this person to love me and I want to love them because without them, what do I have to remember my wedding by?
Also, coming from the photog's POV, each photog has their own style. They "play the game" a certain way. You, as the bride, choose the photog for their style/game. It would never workout to tell a photojournalistic photog to start posing. Or to
tell someone who has a vintage style to start using vivid colors. That's not "playing their game". You choose the photog because your game matches theirs. Without that connection, I don't think they will be able to recreate the wedding day to your
liking. You will, ultimately, end up disappointed.
Price, of course, is always a deciding factor. Make sure you still to your budget. However, if you have any "room" in your overall wedding budget, I would advise to put more towards photography. Just my opinion. In the end,
you/guests will forget the food, you'll forget the centerpieces, and the music you played...but you will ALWAYS have the photographs! I want something to show my kids/grandkids etc. And I want something to look through, that makes me cry, etc :)
For those in sticker shock, I found a great article that sums up why custom/professional photography costs more. We aren't just making these numbers up :)
http://amberfoxphoto.com/why-does-custom-photography-cost-more/