Ok ladies I need some guidance and direction. I have 86 (or so) days left and I feel like there's a million things to do but I don't really know what exactly I should be doing now...if that makes any sense.

Here's what I'm currently working on:

1. Addressing my invites. They are scheduled to go out by the end of this month.

2. Working with the church to set a rehearsal time, and will be booking rehearsal dinner place soon.

3. UMMMM that's where I'm stuck and start feeling overwhelmed.

I think (know) that I should probably get the guys attire taken care of soon...right? What else ladies? What should I be working on and when should I have it done by?

I'm feeling panicy...

Yes, you def want to get the guys attire taken care of...

Your song list, do's and don'ts

Do you have all your jewelry that you want? If not, start looking for those.

ummm, I guess it would be easier to say if I saw what you do have done. Are you following a checklist, via PW or knot?

Yea, I'm following a whole slew of checklists :)

I pretty much have all of my big stuff done...photog, flowers, cake, dress, shoes, venue, church, DJ, BM dresses, invites...

I feel like maybe I'm at the inbetween stage where planning is kinda slow until RSVP's start coming back...but it worries me b/c I really feel that I'm going to forget something...or that now is the time to start working on the little details...

So I guess my task in the next week or so is:
1. Guys attire taken care of
2. Get invites out
3. Figure out ceremony layout
4. Finish accessorizing: jewelry, garter, undergarments

What else?

I think you are right, planning is at a slow point for you right now. I think you are just fine tho!

How are you addressing your invites? By hand, label, calligrapher...? =)

I know calligraphy so I'll be addressing them...110 of them to be exact. I plan on starting them in the next couple days.

luckys!!!

i'm a few days behind you on the big countdown : )

we just sent our invites out yesterday (whoop! whoop!)
we also finalized the groom and groomsmen's attire
FI finalized the readings and i finalized the music with the church & cantor
i met with our day-of coordinator last wed for the first time in person. LOVE HER! lol

we are meeting with the limo company on sept 28 to finalize that too

we're trying to get wedding rings picked and ordered (by end of the month) and engraved
FI knows what he's doing for best man gift, but is figuring out the gmen gifts now.