OK. I need an intervention. I now have 3 wedding dresses hanging in my closet?! Can I get some feedback from my September bridesmates? Venue is outdoor garden/patio. We're going fun casual (bridesmaids are picking their own gray dresses). It will probably be a bit warm, but I will be changing into a shorter party dress for the reception.

Which of these 2 dresses should I wear for the ceremony?

I initially thought I would go with the J. Crew Sophia, but is it too simple? Note: I do not have this model's arms...yet. :-)

But then I was inspored by the Pippa MOH dress with the cap sleeves. The J. Crew Cecelia:

Any advice? I am such the indecisive bride!

I can't see the first pic :(