ha this is so funny to me... it's somehow comforting that other guys had a hard time with it too. the strangest thing to me was after i forced him to write an email, the other guys didn't even write back. finally i had to ask their girlfriends and wives (one thankfully is my sister!) like well are they into being groomsmen and the women were like oh yeah they want to do it. then i'm like great well please have them write back.

i swear pulling teeth the whole way. hilarious.

It took my FI forever too but he just called them up and asked.  He's simple like that.

I'm glad I'm not the only one having trouble getting their guy to do it!  I gave him a deadline of this weekend....we'll see.

lol...a very tough task indeed....i had 12 men in 4 states in 2 different timezones, all in college with hectic schedules.....so i decided to put this little video together...its easy took me an hour ...you can use any computer with some simple editing and you have a hilarious video. this one just happened to take off amoungst my circle of friends... the link is below..enjoy and good luck

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TpcbKjpb6Bk