Jun 16, 2012
Never in a million years would I have thought I'd be getting married...... While most little girls dreamt being swept away by a knight in shinning armor on a majestic white horse, I just couldn't wait to be a grown up.... The thought of being my own boss and doing what I wanted to do, when I wanted to do it was all I could envisions..... Growing up all the married couples I knew were either obviously unhappy and getting a divorce or obviously unhappy and settling..... Either way "marriage" was of no importance to me.
After college many of my friends were getting married and divorced soon after.... I dated the same guy thought my entire college years, infact we have a 10 year daughter. But when he started bringing up "marriage" I took that as my que to bolt... And so I did..
It was during a church service the first lady spoke on marriage and how we as men and woman needed one another. My SPIRIT was vexed. Needless to say I had a serious discrepancy with that lesson.
For years the concept of marriage was simply a way for a man to hinder and control his woman.. To make a long story short I just have to say is GOD is GOOD...... Because my views on "marriage" was so distorted I couldn't see that I was my problem. Thanks my Lord and Savior and the many friends praying, watching over and mentoring me, June 16th 2012 I will be saying " I DO"!