Jul 25, 2014
Where do I start with the proposal.... Ummmm There wasn't one! LOL! We just started planning our life together! Initially I didn't want a wedding. This is the second time for both of us so I didn't think it would be a big deal if we didn't have one..... I was wrong! HE wanted the wedding and said he couldn't introduce me as his wife without it being done in grand fashion :-) so how could I not give him what he wants.
He went on a business trip that was longer than we planned it to be right when we started talking about weddings so I really didn't trip off of the wedding details or any planning. In casual conversation he said that we would be married by summer next year... he'd been plotting/planning all along. That's when I decided maybe I should get my butt in gear and work on somethings like my dress & shoes. I told him and his Mom that they could handle everything else just tell me date and time and I will be there :-)
Future Hubby and I met on *drum roll please*......... FACEBOOK! LOL! He noticed my posts through a mutual friends page and made a few comments before he sent me a friend request along with a personal message. I accepted the request & found it refreshing that he took the time to send the peronsal message which let me know that he was really paying attention to me not just looking at my pictures. I still didn't think anything of a "relationship". We ended up exchanging numbers after a while since he was supposed to come to Cali on a business trip (he's from the East Coast) and suggested that we (myself, him, our mutual FB Friend & their colleagues) hang out. That business trip never happened but after that first phone call he hung up the phone & told his friend "That's it..... She's the one!" Although I didn't find that out til over a year later.