JaxBchKay

WEDDING DATE:

Apr 24, 2015

My FI and I have both been married before and have 3 kids total. I am so thankful to have finally met the love of my life. We want a destination wedding that is fun, memorable, romantic and sets the tone for our amazing marriage to come!
JaxBchKay
  • Last updated on November 27, 2013 at 9:47 am
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Well, I have managed to pick a venue and a date!  For me that is huge!  Thought I found a dress too, but now rethinking it.  Fiance saw a pic and doesn't like it.  I think it's that he wants to see me in something a bit sexier but also, the details on the dress I chose are flowers.  His first wife lived in Laura Ashley and loved flowers on everything!  I think there is a similar dress by the same designer that has different details so I am thinking I will make an appointment to try it on.  I think most men wouldn't notice a detail like that but he is the kind that would.  It's a little disappointing but if that's the biggest problem I have, I'm not doing so bad!  It's so nice to have a community here that is so supportive and understanding.  The ladies here are amazing and I feel so lucky to have found such a great place to help manage the crazy!

  • Last updated on October 21, 2013 at 10:15 am
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Well, the plan was to get married in August of 2014.  Since it is now October of 2013 and I haven't even picked a venue, we decided this weekend that we need to push the date back :(.  I know that it is my fault, I really haven't done anything concrete.  I haven't even tried on a single dress.  I'm not sure what exactly is holding me back, I am so excited to marry my FI!  I think I might still be haunted by my first wedding almost 20 years ago......  I didn't get anything I wanted, I settled on everything.  I am so afraid that I will end up doing that again that I can't seem to finalize any decision at all!  We know what we want, I have done tons of research, I just need to make a choice and then go with it.  We decided yesterday that April of 2015 would be a good time for the wedding, after the holidays but before the summer heat.  I have been researching mostly Riviera Maya, Mexico resorts as they seem to offer the best options for us since we have to bring all 3 kids.  I hope this feeling of anxiety at every little decision calms down...... It's time to put on my big girl pants and get to planning!!!