Nov 14, 2009
If I get to choose what I'm going to wear, so can he. Although...I did buy him a custom made suit, as he didn't want to wear a tux, for the wedding. This way, we both get something tailored specially for us for the big day!
**UPDATE** With a colour change, comes other changes too. Probably a green tie now, something like this with a black suit.
And here is his ring!
I love these! We'll keep the mum pic green, change the dark purple font to espresso brown, and our names to turquoise but with a + sign between them in the chartreuse!!
They are locally made, by an eco-friendly company--the invites are either printed on certified recycled paper, or 100% tree-free paper (recovered cotton or bamboo fibres). We'll be inserting our own directions, and RSVPs will be done via phone or email. I think we'll look at the shower sized invitation as our actual invitation, to cut down on cost.
• Announce your engagement
• Select your wedding date
• Determine the type of wedding you want (formal, destination, number of guests, time of day, etc)
• Figure out your budget and how expenses will be dealt with
• Develop a system of keeping track of vendor payments
• Compile your guest lists (bride’s, groom’s, bride and groom’s parents)
• Reserve ceremony site
• Reserve the officiant
• Reserve reception site
• Order your bridal gown
• Determine your colour scheme
• Book photographer
• Choose wedding participants (witnesses, MCs, ceremony readers)
Reserve wedding night suite
Reserve block of rooms at hotel
Confirm hotel shuttle
• Book caterer
• Book florist
• Confirm rental items needed (stuff for reception music)
• Finalize guest list
• Order wedding invitations
• Send out invitations (September)
• Organize your rehearsal dinner (MIL)
• Plan your honeymoon
• Break-in new shoes
• Create your gift registry
• Order wedding cupcakes
• Select guest favours
• Shop for wedding rings
• Purchase wedding party gifts
• Update your gift registry
Next! Six to Eight Weeks Before the Wedding
• Mail out invitations
• Record RSVPs
• Make note of any gifts received
• Book your hair/make-up trial
• Complete miscellaneous shopping (ceremony vases&branches, small vases, votive holders, tea lights, guest book, ring pillow, seating chart frame, bathroom baskets (2), items for bathrooms-tissues, card basket, etc.)
• Look into name/status change requirements on your driver’s licence, bank accounts, insurance policies, etc.
• Reserve wedding attire for the groom
• Obtain marriage licence
• Finalize the reception menu
Then!! Two to Six Weeks Before the Wedding
• Confirm details with the officiant
• Have your final wedding gown fitting
• Finalize plans for rehearsal dinner
• Finalize floral order
• Finalize decor
• Make a detailed timeline
• Confirm details with vendors and give them a copy of the timeline
• Pack for your honeymoon
• Pick up rings and double check fit
• Pick up wedding attire, do one last fitting
• Go over any photo requirements with photographer
• Confirm music to be played with musicians or DJ (playlists)
• Finalize reception room layout
After That! One Week Before the Wedding
• Do final guest count
• Give final numbers to Caterer
• Review the schedule of events
• Confirm honeymoon details and pack
Almost! Rehearsal Day
• final list of things that must be taken care of (e.g., rings, officiant payment, etc.)
• Arrange for someone to be responsible for all accessories needed, such as the guest book, cake-cutting knife, ring pillow, etc.
Fianlly! Wedding Day
• Follow your schedule of events
• Enjoy! It’s your wedding day!
The venue is gorgeous so everything will be pretty simple.
Centrepieces (probably DIY):
I love this vase...and spider mums...and willow...
These will be for the centrepieces, with:
for this type of look:
These small one for welcome table, cake table, fireplace, and the pub table in the stone lounge. Obviously the tealights will be in votive holders--plain cylinders. Plus, the green mums won't be so, well, green. =))
Love the idea of a picture frame with many openings--different table numbers in each, plus pics in the extras.
(from Nadine158, Weddingbells bride)
I was fiddling around with this idea. Just a simple number/word on the front, then (thanks Martha) a song title on the reverse. If guests would like us to kiss (I personally don't like the clinking of the glasses) they'll have to sing part of the song!
We've made donations to a few groups, and placed a cute silver wrapped chocolate mint on every napkin (just to give them something sweet and to jazz up the table settings a bit):
I saw so many lovely options, but nothing that really matched what we were looking for. We ended up with a beautiful brown leather guestbook, with beautiful turqoise paper lining.
Though my other half could care less, one has to agree that a "scheme" is necessary. I love the colours of my ring box:
so we started there
Hopefully it will all come together!
**UPDATE** I've been struggling with the orange, apparently my board looks better than it actually does in person. Sooooooooo forget the fact that falls conjures images of orange, I think we're just going to go with the brown, turquoise/teal, and chartreuse (with some off white).
Here's an updated board:
So, because we aren't the most traditional couple, I wanted to have a bit of fun with my attire. And because I went with a more traditional wedding gown, I thought I'd jazz it up with some fun shoes (which, now from reading tons of posts around here, I realize isn't so out of the ordinary!).
Charles David Tux Peep Toes:
**Update--I got these on ebay, but they didn't fit. However, I sold them to a bride on another board! Yay! THEN...Shoebuy.com got them back in my size (previously only available in 5.5--of course, this happens after I've already ordered and received the first pair...but oh well!). The new ones are gorgeous!**
My new earrings, made by thestellarkitty on etsy.
It's from Livelovebead on etsy! It is sooooo sparkly!!