A Cape Cod Wedding Minister

We loved Rev. Nancy! She made sure both my husband and I were comfortable with everything and was available to answer questions as they came up. Rev. Nancy helped us design a ceremony that fit our needs. Even though it rained on our wedding day she made the occasion memorable. I would highly recommend Rev. Nancy if you are looking for a professional and caring person to marry you.

We chose Nancy to officiate our beach ceremony. She was really great through the planning process – she sent me sample readings & ceremonies to give me ideas. She was quick to respond to all my questions. I got so many compliments from people on how beautiful and personalized the ceremony was. I do want to warn other brides that she was late to our ceremony by about 15-20 minutes. She was not answering her phone & did not call me or the wedding planner to let us know she was running late. Turns out she had another ceremony at 4:30pm (my ceremony was at 5:30). I do understand that this is her business and that its normal that she would have more than 1 ceremony per day but she booked them way too close together. I would still recommend her to other brides because in the end the ceremony was beautiful, but make sure you know what her schedule is for that day is and have her give you a guarantee that she will be there at least 15 min prior to your ceremony.

We were not able to meet this officiant in person months before the wedding, since we live out of state. This was a huge mistake, because perhaps we would have seen right away that she was not for us. At first, she was very responsive via email, sending us some readings and vows that she likes to use, and we were pleased. But after the deposit was paid, she disappeared and did not respond quickly. We sent the checks, contract, and our detailed plan for the ceremony by the deadlines she specified. Within weeks of the wedding, we finally heard from her, and, believe it or not, she was actually rude with us. She made us feel like we were pests, and we, though very nervous at this point, had NOT contacted her repeatedly. During our final conversation on the phone, she tried to switch around the order of the ceremony that we had put together, and not kindly. She was patronizing and curt on the phone. We were so upset, because we could not stand the thought of saying our vows before her on such a special day. We agonized over our decision and finally let her know that we would not require her services. Because it was so late, and she took so long to get back to us, she kept our entire deposit (she has this in her contract). Soon afterward we found another officiant who was so kind and reassuring that we realized what we had been missing in our experience with Nancy Wurlitzer. In fact, we remain friendly with the person who officiated our ceremony and cannot believe our luck in finding her after going through all of that heartache.