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Changing Your Name - Here's What to Expect

If you’re like most brides, you’ll be exchanging your maiden name to take your husband’s last name after you’re married - but have you thought about everything that needs to be done, both before and after the wedding, to make your name change legal? (community article)

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If you're like most brides, you'll be exchanging your maiden name to take your husband's last name after you're married - but have you thought about everything that needs to be done, both before and after the wedding, to make your name change legal?

If you're not already familiar with all the little details involved in changing your name it can become quite a headache.   There are a variety of documents and papers you will need and there will be several different establishments that must be made aware of your new name.  The following checklist should keep you organized and make things a little easier.

Before the Wedding

Your name will change as soon as you're announced husband and wife, but the legal process recognizing that change takes much longer.  Take that into consideration as you're making honeymoon arrangements - if you're traveling out of the country or need legal documents to prove your identity, you could encounter trouble if you're using your new name.

You can also start thinking about changing things over to your new name at work.  Give your employer some advance notice and get started on the necessary paperwork.  Place an order for new business cards; alert the IT department to update your email address, as well as your profile on the company website; and change your voice mailbox to reflect your new name.  Anything that can be taken care of now will make things much easier on you when you get back to work after the honeymoon.

You can also start giving notice to others that need to be alerted of your name change.  The postal service, magazine subscriptions, and many clubs and organizations can take care of changing your name now, without verification.

After the Honeymoon

Once you've received an official copy of your marriage certificate, you can begin changing your name on your vital documents.  Your social security card should be first.  Visit your local social security office with your marriage license, your current card, and your driver's license.  You will need complete a name change form and the card will be sent to you within a few business days.

When your new social security card arrives, visit DMV and update your driver's license.  Again, you'll need your marriage certificate, social security card, and your old license.  With these two important documents out of the way, you should have no trouble changing your name on your bank accounts, credit cards, passport, and insurance policies. 

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10/06/2011 at 06:51 pm

Very helpful! Thanks!

09/05/2011 at 05:39 am

Also check with your employer about benefits.  I want to add my husband to my health/dental (my plan is better than his) and I only have 30 days from the wedding date to do that....so for those of you who want to do this but are waiting, it's something to consider. 

 

And bring EVERYTHING with you to each of the places and fill out your forms ahead of time.  I got in a bind at social security where I somehow have had my last name spelled incorrectly for 26 years without being notified of it and had to go home and get my original birth certificate after already waiting in the office for over an hour.  So bring as many documents as possible to avoid having to run home and come back.

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09/04/2011 at 05:38 pm

Dreading this

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08/31/2011 at 08:28 pm

One thing to consider also is your changing your name on your bank accounts!

 

I work at a bank, and we require the marriage lisence and ID (old or new).

Depending on the bank, it can be difficult if a check was received in a card as a wedding gift and written to your new name. Sometimes they won't cash or deposit it until the name is changed on the account! Something to consider! :)

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