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Kindness...making it a trend!

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This is about a bride inspired after reading this article about the greatest trend in weddings: Kindness

http://www.superweddings.com/article-kindness_wedding_trend.html

After reading this article, I started thinking "is there anything about my wedding that is purely kind to someone else in need."  What can I do?  Here are a few suggestions from the article.

"Here are some ideas on how you can make kindness a part of your wedding:

  • In place of traditional wedding favors, make a donation to a worthwhile cause in each guest’s name. At the reception, present each guest with a small nicely printed card explaining that this has been done.

  • Suggest that instead of wedding gifts, guests make a contribution to either a charity of your choosing, or a cause that is important to them. Pop star Christina Aguilera did this when she wed last December and requested that guests make donations to Hurricane Katrina victims rather than giving wedding presents. Even comic strip characters are taking a shine to this trend; the popular comic strip character Cathy also did this last year when she asked her guests (and readers of the strip) to make a donation to a particular California shelter for homeless animals!

  • Some gift registry services will donate a percentage of all gifts purchased through their service to the charity of your choice – look for one that offers this.

  • Make arrangements to donate food left over from the reception to a local soup kitchen or homeless shelter.

  • Donate flower arrangements to local hospices or nursing homes following the wedding.

  • After the wedding, donate your used wedding supplies and accessories –or even your wedding dress - to Goodwill (Goodwill Industries International) or another charitable organization that collects used goods.

  • Or, like Ms. Jolie, shop Goodwill stores (Goodwill Industries International) in your area for your wedding gown and related accessories."

In addition to some of the above, this is what I think we'll do:

In addition to our favors,  the bride and groom will donate an hour of service for each guests in their honor...take pics and post it on a website as we volunteer for our friends and family to access.  We'll volunteer at a hospital, animal shelter, community garden, soup kitchen, or wherever our hearts desire at that moment.  We can have fun doing it and feel good doing it knowing it's an act of kindness!

Hopefully, this will be a trend that continues to get popular as years go by!

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09/27/2009 at 10:37 am

Awesome idea Mrs.Nik!  think I'll do the same!

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09/27/2009 at 10:16 am

Love this article!!!! Thanks!

09/26/2009 at 03:44 pm

What i'm doing is having my guests bring non perishable food items and then donating them to my local food bank. I'm putting something on my wedding website letting everyone know about it. Every person who brings canned goods and other non perishable food items will get a ticket. Then sometime during the reception we'll have a drawing and those picked will get a prize. They'll get to pick their own prize out of different options that we'll have for them. I'm thinkin the prizes will be stuff like a dance with the groom or bride or an extra piece of cake or stuff like that. I haven't figured out what all the prizes will be yet. Also whoever brings the most food for the food bank gets a voucher for a free cake from me. I'm a baker and everybody likes cake so I think that'll be a good reward. My cakes are freakin awesome so I know people will be happy with that as a reward.

Also as favors i'm donating my time in their honor at the local animal rescue shelter helping animals to recover from injuries and getting them back to their normal playful selves. And i'm donating my time in their honor at a local company where i'm teaching mentally challenged adults how to read and write and learn career skills to help them become more independent. I have been volunteering for a long time now so it's not actually just for the wedding favors. I just can't afford to buy anything for favors and since i'm doing it anyway I might as well include it right. lol

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